Miss K has reviewed Elise Sutton highlighting once again how ES' writing is often weird, full of contradictions and the like. One of these misconceptions is humiliation. I was very very much, confused when I met a wonderfully dominant woman about 10 years ago and when it came to sex and humiliation, there was none of the 'wee limp cock' humiliation.
Even today we often have a nice night in where something like this happens.
We lie in bed, close to each other. She has asked me to masturbate very slowly, from time to time she directs the rythm of my hand, sometimes she touches the tip of my penis, then again she squeezes my nipples or tickles me.
"I like it when you are hard."
I move closer hoping - without success - for her to make me move faster, allow me to enter her.
"You feel warm and calm like this - move slower."
I obey, turn my head to the side, kiss her shoulder.
"Would you like to be inside me?" Her hands touch my stomach, I know she will tickle me if I say yes.
"Probably" - I carefully whisper.
She looks ay me quizzically. "Not definitely?"
"Yes"
"It is a shame, you are so hard now, it'll be a wee bit tight and uncomfortable. Maybe some other time, but I'd love your tongue.
It is as horrible and frustrating as the 'wee cock' experience but there is none of the humiliation. There is just the two consenting adults having sex the way they enjoy and in a way where the woman has learned to have confidence when taking control of the events.
