Relationship
The foundation of our relationship is that we are very good friends. We are honest and truthful to each other and we would not keep any thoughts, concerns or desires to ourselves but will communicate them openly and fully.
Submission
As a partner in our relationship, I have very strong submissive feelings. I know and understand that these feelings can be alienating and actually time consuming and tiring to adjust to. I am very thankful, that you are willing to help me with these emotions and I will try to find ways in which I can channel them to make this as easy for you as possible.
As a submissive I do not just respect you. I vow to:
- Adore you for being the person you are. For your never ending optimism, for your desire to shine in all situations, for you being you.
- Serve you in any way that you ask me to or desire. I see this service as a central part of our relationship. I shall serve you by giving you unrestricted access and control over all my time and money.
- Take the time required and use any free time I have to ensure that I progress professionally and to ensure I can warrant the best lifestyle for you and myself (as far as you consider me deserving). I shall not refuse to follow any of your instructions unless these would violate this requirement.
- Find opportunities to surprise and please you wherever I can.
- Accept your space and 'me-time' and accept that I may be asked to withdraw for extended periods of time to give you this space that you have become so accustomed to.
Domination
You are the most attractive partner I have ever had. I love you because you are creative, always optimistic, exceptionally organised, funny and adorably sweet. But you know that you are also a control freak that loves when everything is done to her exacting standard and ideas.
This last trait is what makes you stand out as person to my submissive side. This is the part of you that will never compromise, never let herself be coerced into ideas she did not like. This is the part of you that I submit to, the part that I so fully fail to live up to how ever hard I have tried. It is the part of you that I will never be good enough for, the part that will keeps forcing me to try harder.
I ask you to never give this part of you up, embrace it and how ever tiresome it is to reiterate my persistent failure to live up to it, keep trying. This is the part the forms the pedestal on which you stand, towering over my life and body. Let this part rule yourself. Let this part come free, accept its judgements.
Sexuality
- I will put your pleasure and comfort over my sexual pleasure.
- I shall never expect permission for sexual relief in your presence and I must not ask for it but if at all await for you to grant it. I shall not seek sexual contact with any other person or fantasize about this with any other person.
- I must not try to arouse you sexually unless asked or directed to do so. When you do so, it is my obligation to try to provide you with a most enjoyable experience without expecting anything in return.
