Fetishes

I'd lie if I say I do not have fetishes but mostly they annoy me. Now I am trying to see this from the dominant women's perspective. Surely her view of things should by "Why should I care?". For my part, I like feet. They arouse me, naked women's feet in stockings, in high heels are a very very sexy concept to my mind. But it is not the essence of my relationship. Quite the contrary. Being a sub, I would never expect the dominant to wear clothes especially for me.

My partner loves to wear socks. Unless when she is dressed up, she wears them 24/7 including in bed. I have to ask to remove them when giving her a foot massage and not infrequently will I be rejected. If I do get permission to remove them, I will always have to put them back on when the foot massage is completed.

I rarely see my partner is stockings. As I get home late, I usually know that if I do, she has left them on because my massages are longer and more dedicated. But it is a treat for me, a treat I would never expect.

Now, think of the world of porn and pro domination. Yes there will be exceptions to the rule but there appears to be so much of the Latex, the Leather, the stupidly high heels that I struggle to find a bit of credibility left. I love some of the works of Maitresse Madelaine but each time I see it, I want to see the women enjoying herself not the women donning on the tight latex dress to please.

I might just not get it. To me a fetish is a desire - a wish. It is one of the most wonderful things to be catered for but it must be exceptional. If it is not pleasing the one I wish to serve then it should not need become a reality.